When the loss is a child, it was suicide, or the case is unsolved
I do sessions for these losses. Here’s the short version before you book.
When the loss is a child
A lot of the people who sit with me have lost a child, young or grown. I have twin boys, and I don’t know how it feels. I won’t pretend I do, and I won’t assume anything about where you are with it.
I’m not there to coach you toward feeling better or to explain your grief to you. My job is to get out of the way and let your child come through as who they are. What you do with that is yours.
When it was suicide
If you’re not grieving this but living inside it right now, put this down and call or text 988. I mean it. Come back later.
I sit with a lot of families who’ve lost someone this way. I don’t have it figured out, and I’m not going to hand you an explanation.
What I can tell you is what I’ve seen: nobody has ever come through with blame for the person sitting across from me. They come through as themselves. That’s the session.
When the case is unsolved
I take unsolved cases, and I work them differently from a regular session. I’ve been part of enough of them to have a specific protocol, and I follow it every time. It’s there to protect you, me, and above all the case itself. Nothing I do should ever get in the way of an investigation.
So this isn’t book a time, come in, and we’ll figure it out. Whether you’re family, a private investigator, or working with police or detectives, email me first. One line is enough: you have an unsolved case. Please don’t send names, dates, or any details. I’ll reply with exactly how I work and what I can and can’t do, and we’ll set it up from there.
We’re all just walking each other home.